Tuesday, September 06, 2005

Communicating from the Heart

Communicating from your heart rather than from your fears, or a need to control, opens the door for a spiritual partnership. Loving one another can sometimes fall by the wayside when one or both partners get caught in an emotional reaction or an old pattern response. The partner begins to relate from the 2nd and 3rd chakras in an attempt to control either sexually or through willpower. The heart chakra is bypassed, forgotten when power rules.

Being swept away in emotional responses, the partner (s) can lose sight of the basis of the loving relationship. Stopping, walking away from the conflict, and taking time alone to reconnect to their heart space allows the partner the ability to reassess the situation, finding their center once again and choose to flow their energies back up through their heart chakra.

In a spiritual relationship, this can involve searching within themselves for their involvement in the conflict. Is something out of balance? Are they reacting to an old pattern or an old memory? What trigger was pushed? Is it their issue, or their partners? And if it is their partners, what is it reflecting back to them?

The old saying goes, “It takes two to tango…”

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